The 26-year-old said she was repeatedly bullied for her weight, making her consider giving up the sport entirely
U.S. women’s national team midfielder Lindsey Horan has opened up on the body shaming she experienced during her spell at Paris Saint-Germain.
Horan signed with the French outfit straight from high school in 2012 and spent four years with the club, before signing with her current side, the Portland Thorns of the NWSL.
Though she had plenty of on-field success with PSG, Horan has detailed a toxic work environment where she was ridiculed for her weight and embarrassed in front of her team-mates.
A culture of abuse
“In France, that was the number one time that I felt like I wanted to quit soccer. I was not enjoying myself and there was just so much wrong being done, that I lost the love for the game,” Horan said on the Butterfly Road podcast, which is hosted by North Carolina Courage defender Cari Roccaro.
Much of the abuse Horan described was perpetrated by PSG coach Farid Benstiti, who is now head coach of the Thorns’ NWSL rivals OL Reign.
“One of my team-mates, after an away game she had chocolate and the coach heard it in the front [of the team bus] and came back and basically took the chocolate from her, and said, ‘You can’t have this around Lindsey,’ because I was sitting a seat ahead of her.
“There was a photoshoot that we did and the guy asked what I needed for a certain jacket, and our coach was in there, and I tried on the medium, and it didn’t fit and I was like, ‘Can I actually do a large?’
“And he was like, ‘At some point you need to be in a medium, you shouldn’t be in a large in this jacket.’ And like kind of smiled and laughed.”
It wasn’t just Benstiti who perpetrated the body-shaming.
“There was a time my assistant coach came by my table and put this thing of pie in my face and said, ‘Oh, I bet you want this’ in French,” Horan continued.
“And I was just like, ‘Are you kidding me? You guys are something else.’ It was just so unheard of.”
Being fit wasn’t enough
Horan said she did lose weight and got to a point where she was one of the fittest members of the team. But that was not enough to satisfy the coaching staff.
“My weight was significantly down, and we did our preseason fitness test, and I absolutely killed it,” Horan said. “I killed everyone, there was maybe one person that was close to me but I was so proud of myself, I’m like, ‘I got to this point, I’m the fittest player on this team.’
“[Benstiti] then announced to the team: ‘Lindsey, your weight is not good enough, your body fat is still too high, You’re not going to play in a game until that’s done.’
“[He] said that to the team. I started shaking I was so mad.”
Horan said because of the shaming she lost even more weight, getting to a level she felt was not healthy for her. Only then did she say the coaching staff was satisfied – but not for on-field reasons.
“I was very unhealthy, and the funniest thing was the coaching staff absolutely loved it,” Horan said. “They were like, ‘Oh my gosh, look what we did to her, she’s so much better for it. She’s so beautiful now.’
“That was the word they used. It wasn’t like I was fit, I was healthy, I was strong, and I was playing well and they could see it on the field. It was like, ‘Wow you’re so beautiful now.'”
A meeting with Benstiti
Horan said she had the chance to briefly speak with Benstiti last year ahead of a NWSL Challenge Cup match.
“He came up to me and he goes, ‘Lindsey I forgive you for all the comments you made about me on social media,'” Horan recalled.
“And I said to him, ‘I didn’t apologize and what I said was my honest thoughts, and what you did to me really affected me.’
“And he didn’t understand. His English is still all over the place. And he goes, ‘We can talk about this later,’ because it was right before the game. I was like ‘OK.’
“We never had a conversation about it, still to this day.”